Coach Yourself to Building a Success Mindset
“Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into visible.” - Tony Robbins.
How often do we hear that you are the master of your destiny or that you create your own life? To a great extent, this is true because all of us are born with the same brain capacity, individual talents, and the same number of hours in a day. What you choose to do with these hours and the power of thinking as an individual is entirely up to you.
Success results from a positive and focused mindset. Regardless of your profession, bloodline, or cultural background, your success is shaped by your determination and a winner’s attitude. Failures are a part of everyone’s journey, but how one deals with them separates the winners from those who see themselves as victims.
However, it’s not only that but as you shift your mindset to a more positive and achiever mindset, things around you start to shift. It’s as if the whole universe conspires to bring you more positive results. What if you begin to believe that you can make it happen? That you are the master of your own destiny, That you can achieve your dreams. The first thing that happens is that you start working towards them. You take the first step that leads to many significant milestones, and you embark on this beautiful journey of self fulfillment and achievement.
There are two simple ways to coach yourself to success : achieving something, whether it’s money, love, or career. (1) Set your goals, (2) go after them. And don’t stop until you get there.
Shift Your Energy
Have you ever encountered a very successful person and noticed they have this undeniable charismatic aura about them? That aura is not because of their success; instead, they have attracted their success because of that aura, i.e. energy.
Humans are more than just a structure of bones and meat. We exist because of the soul, and the simplest way to define the soul is energy. The easiest way to change your energy is to change your thoughts. When you have negative self-dialogue or unhealthy thoughts, change them into positive thoughts. It can feel unnatural initially as the mind is used to running on a particular pattern. But remember, our mind is just another muscle in the physical body, and just like other muscles, it can be trained too.
Raise your vibrations with positive thinking.
Focus on the Important Few
Life is filled with the important few and the trivial many. Choose your important few and focus on them. Cut out the distractions and eliminate the petty stuff from your life. Remember that your time and energy is limited, and they should only be spent on things that are worthwhile for you.
Spend time reflecting on the important things in your life: family, health, financial stability, career, etc. It can be different for different individuals, so figure out the ones that are important to you at a deeper level.
Making a list of priorities can be a simple yet effective way to figure out your important few.
As you eliminate the trivial many from your routine, you make more room for the important few. This allows you to be more focused and dedicated, which leads to more significant results.
Notice the shifts in your life as you let go of the energy drainers.
Install New Habits
As you let go of the old habits, install new and healthier habits that resonate with the future self you wish to become. It’s always easier to change habits as you replace them with new ones.
Adapt more wholesome habits that can benefit you in the long run. Such as replacing watching TV until bedtime with reading a book. Instead of drinking alcohol a few times a week to exercise. Ordering takeout to prepare meals at home.
Good or healthy habits are not restricting yourself from anything. Instead, they are an investment in the future and finding a balance between fun and growth.
Get Clear on Your Goals
The most important part of the coaching process is clarity on goals. Without it, you don’t know what you are working towards. Determine where you want to be regarding your personal goals, relationships, mental and physical health, finances, career, or business.
If you have already created your list of priorities (as mentioned in the above paragraph), you can use that to draw goals for each priority, or you can choose the goals for yourself that you want to work towards.
Keep your goals realistic and attainable, and list down all the actionable steps required to achieve those goals.
Success Mindset
What separates thriving people from languishing people is their mindset.
“If you see it in your mind, you will hold it in your hand.” - Bob Proctor.
You have only one life to live on this earth, so why not make the most of it? You have the power to live your dreams; you just have to believe in yourself.
Don’t let your limiting beliefs stop you from pursuing what you want. Your limiting beliefs result from your experiences, upbringing, and environment. If you were born in a different country, in a different family, and had different experiences, your beliefs would be different. There are millions of success stories out there. The one thing these people have in common is their beliefs. Anything is possible if you stay committed and put in the required work.
Change your mindset to a success mindset. When you believe everything you want is possible, then it shall be possible to achieve.
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Anam Anjum
Wellness Consultant
+971 52 629 9656